The philosopher Jacques Derrida wrote at length about the Possible and Impossible Aporias. He believed that “The Gift” and “Hospitality” along with other examples were impossible as the there is always an economy at play. For example, there is no thing as a pure gift as even if the receiver says “thank-you”, the “thank you” is a form of payment. We can take it further and say that even the “satisfaction” of giving is a form of payment. Derrida also believed that with hospitality, the host was empowered and hospitality was limited to the implied rules of the host. An example here would be seen in guests that start to destroy the host’s home, start fighting with the host or simply overstay their welcome. Under these conditions, altruism would play a part but eventually the hospitality would more than likely end.

OK, enough of that!!!

Let’s lighten up…..




 Last week-end I took myself and my son to Afrika Burns. This is an Arts Festival in the Karoo that is also an experimental community of gifting, self-expression and self reliance.  

We were part of a collective called “Sanctuary” and the idea was to create a space where we could serve herbal tea and freshly baked bread. The space was created in a Bedouin style tent. We had arranged bean bags and stacks of cushions, a low table and made things comfortable and aesthetically chilled as possible in the heat of the Karoo. Our 12 volt sound system played meditative and relaxing music.

 On Saturday morning our “shop” opened and it wasn’t long before we were full!!

Our small group (both children and adults) were all involved in one way or the other. For the rest of the day we served the refreshing tea and scrumptious bread to a constant stream of guests.  I would say that our place was a sanctuary to those that came and enjoyed our gifting and hospitality.

The experience of giving and hosting in this way is most extraordinary. What we offered was small, however the sense of euphoria and pleasure around giving was far greater than what was offered. I believe that the giver was rewarded beyond his or her giving.

As I consider this, I realize that Derrida is right and gifting and hospitality are impossible, but not in the way that I first understood. We can take it a step further and look beyond the physical transaction if we consider the (im)possible as a spiritual act . Afrika Burns gave me, my son and my friends at Sanctuary the beautiful gift of experiencing the divine (im)possible. It made our gifts seem insignificant.

Thanks and I look forward to next year!!!




This posting is part of the Afrika Burn 2008 Syncroblog:

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(Im)possible no.1 – Gift

October 24, 2008





Acrylic on canvas: 1000mm X 500mm

Untitled photo

October 20, 2008






I shot this photo on Saturday night. I was at Afrika Burn in the middle of the Karoo, South Africa. 


The ground was hard like marble. It resembled the skin of a albino python. Fine, delicate desert flowers had grown out of the thin cracks in Earth’s shell. The life had almost dried out of these plants. The thermometer had reach 42 degrees celsius earlier that day. As summer now begins, soon these flowers will be gone and the ground will be left bare.


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Sufi Dervish Zikr

October 16, 2008




I took these photos last Friday evening in Khartoum, Sudan. The Sufi Dervishes meet outside at sunset in a cemetery with a small weathered and ancient mosque. It was an exhilarating experience. The fast rhythmic drumming, chanting and dancing is hypnotic and trance inducing with a powerful sense of joy.